Music that makes you cry

So it’s nearly 2am and I am working on my laptop, and all of a sudden, my eyes fill with water. I probably sound confused right now, but wait until you have three Westlife albums blasting through your earphones, and see if you wouldn’t have the waterworks. Music like this makes you begin to think […]

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Keeping the drive alive.

Do you feel stuck in your life, afraid that you are not nearly touching your potential with a ten-foot pole, and that you might at this rate, turn out a disappointment to yourself and everyone around you? It is a familiar feeling. Nearly everyone at some point in their lives have felt this way. I […]

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You wear heels? Hello hell!

Yesterday, the Facebook community engaged in conversations on the topic of heels and christian women. You know how it is; every week comes with its trending topics. The other day it was Oha soup versus Afang, and people found a way to still shade Gbegiri and Egusi in the midst of this war. It was […]

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The virginity question

On virginity, one last time. I think it’s cool to be a virgin until marriage. And I don’t even mean having your hymen intact. I mean remaining sexually pure, whether or not you have a hymen (whether you have lost it at some point in your life, or you don’t have one at all because […]

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To Nigerian Dressmakers, with love.

Dear Nigerian Dressmakers, I understand men look good in suits. Dapper, dashing, sexy some. But, considering where suits originated from, I wonder, are suits the best for our men? Today, I saw a young man standing under the hot sun after service. Man had on a white shirt, an inner cardigan a different colour, and […]

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So you say you want to ‘blow’

My eyes are heavy from lack of sleep, but lemme just drop this here. Mega shouts to everyone out there who has ‘blown’. Everyone wants to be a star, to shine brighter than a vigilante’s torch light at 1am and blind their enemies with it. What many don’t realise is, shining isn’t as selfish as […]

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